Rich at FourFour pretty much sums it up. For those to lazy to click over and read the whole thing, the last few lines give you a good idea:
"There's a whole world of possibility that we have the unique situation of being privy to. It seems to me that to not take advantage of that, to merely stay within what is considered typical behavior and interests, to uphold this queer status quo, is to revoke your cultural birthright as a gay male.
"What exactly does it take to be gay? It depends on the person, and how willing he is to actually be one."